
I began working in vocation ministry officially in August 2019, when Bishop Joseph Kopacz asked me to serve as vocation promoter for the Diocese of Jackson. It is hard to believe that was more than six years ago.
During that time, I have sat across from dozens of young men at various stages of discernment. Over the years, I have come to recognize that while every discernment journey is different, there are common pathways we must be prepared to help young men navigate. The truth is that the final “yes” to enter seminary comes only after many smaller “yeses.”
A young man may not yet be ready to apply for seminary, but for a year or two he may need tools to help him remain engaged in the discernment process, deepen his prayer life, and receive support from other men in similar circumstances.
Thankfully, over the years I have encountered many helpful resources for men in this “pre-seminary” stage of discernment. One of those resources is the High Calling Program offered by the Avila Institute. I have written about this program before. Our first discerner to use it was EJ Martin – and look at him now.
High Calling is a fully online, pre-seminary program that includes about a dozen three-week modules addressing various aspects of discernment. Its faculty includes well-known and vetted seminary professors, experts in spiritual life and discernment, and vocation directors.
This year, I was honored – and a little intimidated – to be invited to teach one of the modules. My topic was the role of friendship in the life of the priest. Over three Wednesday evenings, I guided about 60 students through “Spiritual Friendship” by St. Aelred of Rievaulx, a classic work of Catholic spirituality.
Teaching the text required me to read it closely, and it proved beneficial for me as well. St. Aelred encourages intentionality in developing deep, trustworthy friendships and sharing one’s life with the Lord beyond surface-level interests. This is a particularly practical topic for men considering the seminary. Priesthood is sometimes misunderstood as a vocation for those drawn primarily to solitude, but cultivating strong, healthy friendships is essential to maintaining our humanity as celibate priests.
While it was daunting to face 60 men eager to learn about priestly life, the experience gave me a deeper understanding of the High Calling Program. It was inspiring to witness the dedication of these men, including two from our own diocese.
I am grateful that this program is available to young men who are serious about discerning their vocation, and I hope it is helpful for readers to learn about one of the resources we are able to offer discerners because of your generous support.
(For more information on vocations, visit jacksonvocations.com or contact Father Nick at nick.adam@jacksondiocese.org.)









